Hundreds of my subscribers have grumbled over the years about how superficial and banal much conversation has become. (I agree.) I've concluded that to have more meaningful conversations, certain elements must be present:

1. People who are interested in deeper talk and other viewpoints. Those who attend this event are self-selected.

2. An assortment of interesting topics from which people

can select their preferences or mutual agreement by the conversers on the topic(s) to explore.

3. A few basic ground rules for the conduct of the conversations that allow turns and time for everyone.

4. A convenient, comfortable venue.

5. Plus: A convener or facilitator can be helpful.

On Sunday, Feb. 6, 3:30 p.m. at Sahara West Library in

Las Vegas, Nevada, I'll host our first "Feast of Conversation"

event. It's open to the adult public at no cost.

Every person attending will receive a "menu" of enticing topics from which to choose and also a copy of my "Small Talk Success Tips" booklet. Although this event will focus on

"bigger ideas" and not small talk, you may find value in the tips booklet for social and workplace purposes.

(Yes, I know this is "Superbowl Sunday," and in my

haste to book an adequate room in the library's crowded

schedule, last December I seized the first time available on a non weekday when people were at work. My apologies to those football fans who would have liked to attend. I, too, am a football fan!)

I've received inquiries from around the planet to say "I'd like to attend but live in Australia" (or some other distant place.)

Therefore, for most of my subscribers who live elsewhere (in 87 countries), if you are interested in such a process, I'll set about

creating an instruction kit for how to plan, promote, and facilitate such an event for as few as 6 people or as many as 500. If this is something that interests you, please let me know by email, loren@conversationmatters.com

"Better Conversations Make a Better World."

Loren Ekroth ©2011, all rights reserved

Loren Ekroth, Ph.D. is a specialist in human communication and a national expert on conversation for business and social life.