You can talk with others as if they are good, lovable people in many small ways, such as by:

Giving them your attention; listening and talking respectfully; inviting them into your group conversation; asking them how they are doing (really); showing interest in their family; asking about their vacation plans; getting together for a friendly lunch. Etc.

No need to be effusive. Just be genuine.

Until next Monday,

Loren

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Loren Ekroth, Ph.D. is a specialist in human communication and a national expert on conversation for business and social life.